How Then Shall We Enjoy?

Kevin DeYoung offers Christians some good advice about confronting the continuing problem of binge drinking on College campuses. Read the whole thing for introduction and explanation, but his five step program is: 1) Know your enemy (i.E. debauchery poses more of a threat to young Christians than anti-Christian arguments), 2) Have a mature attitude towards alcohol 3) Be boldly Biblical 4) Show tough love 5) Remind Christians who they are.

Good list, but I think something's missing. I know what binge drinking look like. I went to a big state school where the T-shirts read "a drinking town with a football problem." My freshman year, we were the #1 party school and the #1 football team. I've seen wasted students do stupid, disgusting things, and I've read about worse. I mourn, not because they partied, but because they failed to party properly.

We serve a Lord who turned (a lot of) water into (a lot of) wine. During his time on earth, he went to a lot of parties, to the point where his enemies not only accused him of hanging out with the wrong crowd, but of being a drunkard and a glutton. But Jesus was neither.

We're not to be drunkards, and DeYoung is right that we should make that clear. Nor should we be gluttons. But I think "mature attitudes towards alcohol" should go more into how Christians should drink. Or, for that matter, how Christians should feast, tell jokes and have fun in general. This should all be in the context of a larger theology of pleasure, where pleasured is affirmed but not worshiped. Without such affirmation, Christian warnings about pleasurable things give the impression that we'd prefer to avoid fun all together. I've seen plenty of college testimonials that went something like this: "I used to party, but then I found Christ, so now I don't." Wow, count me in.

Instead, Christians should learn excellence in pleasure and not hide it. We should show how humor can be hilarious without engaging in cheap obscenities or destructive sarcasm. We should show how we cook, eat and enjoy exquisite foods without making a god of our stomachs. And we should show, especially to those who are still too young to partake, how good drink can enhance flavor, camaraderie, conversation and romance, and that those who settle for the over-consumption of cheap booze are missing out on something far greater. Of course, excellence in pleasure should clearly show that there are times not to partake - that there are seasons of feasting and fasting, and that there are times to be serious and that our happiness does not rely on drink. Excellence in pleasure includes knowing when to stop and when to say no, how to recognize and and give deference to our weaker brothers and sisters.

That's why this passage from DeYoung's post isn't very helpful:

On the other hand, the Christians that recognize the good gift of wine or beer need to grow up at times. Christian upperclassmen (and other adults) who can drink legally should be careful with alcohol consumption around underage believers. They should not talk about beer like it’s the coolest thing since Sufjan Stevens. Christian liberty is no reason for social life and conversation to revolve around the conspicuous consumption of alcohol.

Often, beer is better than Sufjan, Bon Iver, Tupac or whatever else is in your iPad. To not say so would be dishonest. Our social lives shouldn't worship alcohol, but neither should we treat pleasure in alcohol as some sort of embarrassing thing we have to hide. Alcohol is more likely to be a dangerous, forbidden fruit if we treat it like one. Moreover, if Christian youth do not have good models of excellence in pleasure, especially the pleasure of drink, then the alternatives offered by peers and media will be much more tempting.